DSI

I have realized that alot of marriages were founded on a wrong footing. Although some have managed to work out because they purposed to work it out or they have tried,  But still some have NOT purposed to re-fucos their purpose for marriage.

Please these are NOT GOOD REASONS TO MARRY OR TI GET MAARIED.

1. All my friends are married already

Your friends will not come to cook/sleep/take care/provide for your husband/wife. It is a responsibility. Marriage is acommitment made after personal choice because marruage is made, it doesnt make people it is who make marriage.

 2. Looking for happiness?

Happy people make happy people,  sad people make a sad marriage.  So please MARRAGE WILL NOT MAKE YOU HAPPY,  HAPPINESS IS BROUGHT INTO MARRIAGE.

3. Don’t marry because you pity someone or dont be narried because some has pitied you

If you pity someone help her/him and let them go and marry a different person to be your wife or husband,  you dont marry for sympathy,  empathy or pity. VERY VERY DANGEROUS

4. Don’t marry to prove something.

Please if you want prove something,  those you are proving something to will not be with you for life. Please dont use another person’s life to prove a point self-worth person,  or other people.

5. Don’t marry to feel self-worth

If you want to add worth to your life,  dont marry for that,  also dont marry to have a passport for another country or to stay in another country that is not biblical, although many have done that.

6. Don’t marry because you think you are running out of time.

Decide to get married not because your time is passing away.

I have managed to sqeeze out 7 biblical purposes of Marriage although some have lass or more but with me i feel like these are purposes for marriage.

1.            Companionship

This is a feeling of fellowship or friendship; companionship grows out of a oneness of spirit.

2.            Fruitfulness

Producing many offspring, or producing good or helpful results; productive.

3.            Typify Christ and the Church

Marriage is to be a human object lesson of the divine relationship between Christ and believers. (Ephesians 5:31–33.)

4.            Protection

 A person or thing that protects someone or something, or a legal or other formal measure intended to preserve civil liberties and rights.

5.            Completeness

Having all the necessary or appropriate parts, having run its full course; finished.

6.            Enjoyment

The state or process of taking pleasure in something, the action of possessing and benefiting from something.

7.            Nourishing and Cherishing_

Nourishing the food necessary for growth, health, and good condition.

Cherishing, protect and care for (someone) lovingly

In Part 2 and Part 3 i will be trying to expand on these 7 biblical purposes of marriage. Please anybody who feels like adding anything feel free to add or comment even ask any question if you have.